My ex-boyfriend who had a huge high heel fetish would buy me loads of shoes (obviously 4.5-5" stiletto high heels) from top designers (Gucci, YSL, Prada, Blahnik, Choo, Lououbtin..etc..etc..) We were together for 5 months and I fulfilled all his fetish fantasies and in return I received brand new shoes. (which would obviously be used for his fantasies). We broke up 2 weeks ago and we’re still living together although he is looking for another apartment. As we both work we don’t really see each other, so for the time being it hasn’t really been that much of an issue for me. I’ve also been spending nights with friend and family. However, on Saturday night, just as I was climbing the stairs to our flat, I saw a woman walking down in a pair of red patent leather peep toe LK bennet stilettos, which looked identical to mine. I immediately asked her where she got them and she told me they were a gift. I confronted her and asked if they had been given by my ex and she looked very surprised when I told her they were mine.
She pleaded with me, as she didn’t have any other shoes, but I didn’t have any of it and took them right off her feet and yelled at her until she left. I also noticed the inside of the shoes she had been wearing were very sticky.
I went into our flat and had a huge fight with him and he said that the shoes were his, as he had bought them with his own money and as soon as he finds a place he’ll be taking them all with him.
What should I do?
Also the other thing to bear in mind… should I actually keep them? Considering I know EXACTLY what he’s been making that girl do in my shoes….
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Steal them all while he is out.
Maybe just get your very favourites and leave him a few.
They were a gift to you. You don’t take birthday and Christmas present back do you?!
AND I LOVE HOW YOU MADE HER GIVE YOU THE SHOES BACK.
-yes keep them even though you know what she did in them. Clean them. Get them quick before anyone wears another pair. Keep them just to be a bitch because he needs to be taught a lesson.
take them all now and hide them somewhere, at a friends or something, now! haha
though this isn’t really a good comparison, when you get divorced you give the ring back right??
so when you break up you give the presents back
Move all of your stuff to your parents house — NOW.
move all your shoes to a trusted friend’s place immediately if they’ll let you. Then when ex moves out change the locks on doors and make sure windows are locked as well. When things settle down, bring your shoes home.
well he is being a nasty piece of work, at the end of the day, he gave them to u as a present and only a low life would ask for a gift back just cuz u guys broke up, its childish and very pathetic of him. tell him that they were a gift in return for the fantasies u helped come true, also the other thing u could do, cuz u cnt trust him now, take the shoes, put them in a box and leave them either at family or at ur friends house, that way he cnt steal them of u anymore and there is nothing he can do about it!!!! i hope he moves out fast!!
TAKE THE SHOES AND RUN!
they were gifts, weren’t they? so they’re yours! hide them at a friends or at your parents
btw i think your ex is a jerk. i mean, Hellooo! you cannot take gifts back just like that IDIOT!